About a week ago, I went through Rothwell Heights to the Beacon Hill mall. The new development scheduled for this genteel neighbourhood haven't started yet. For visits last year to The Hill Bakehouse, I stuck with samosa and Jamaican patty. But with a hankering for cheap Chinese food a la South Pacific, I went back to a small fried rice ($5) and 2 chicken nuggets ($0.50/each). The nuggets were ok but the rice was only passable. Despite being directly off the wok, they lacked wok hei and were a bit tough. I think the combination of being cold from the fridge (food safety rules) and insufficient heat during cooking made them subpar.
On Sunday, I went to visit some friends. I was again pleasantly surprised by the speedy transit. Although speedy still meant an 80 minute trip. They were once again hosting a birthday lunch for another friend who lived nearby. But we ended up with a lot of food because the latter and their family couldn't make it. Earlier in the morning, her dad was admitted into the emergency room and might need surgery. They spent several pandemic years building a multi-generational home. So it would be a shame that they might only get to share it for only a short while.
The food, all home-made except for the filipino sausages, was a generous spread of crab dip, two delicious Malaysian mains of grilled chicken and beef rendang, a rich peanut sauce, and some garlic fried rice. With the bad news, we also talked about our own family situation. Luckily our parents were still healthy though they have certainly slowed down. I shared that I might have some property left by my father back in the old country. But I haven't pursued it yet because there were likely some messy legal knots with other heirs. The wife related how her late mother gave a house overseas to a new nephew because her kids didn't need it in North America. This was still a sore point for my friend. The husband may inherit some ancestral properties from various aunts and uncles, but they would mostly be ruins in a remote village.
With only one teenager around for lunch this time, I asked about his graduation plans for next year. He was keen on pursuing medical school but his father cautioned him that he must be prepared for disappointment. Many people fail to get an acceptance including a mutual friend some few decades back, who finally settled for a military career. About 12 years ago, my own cousin also failed several times to pass the interview process. They were now a bureaucrat, like many in Ottawa, with a family out in the suburbs. The teen seemed undeterred and why should he be? Young, optimistic, with no aching back and wonky knees, the future was bright.
